Embrace Your People and Live Well

Lisa Johnson is a fitness blogger at LisaJohnsonFitness.com

When I was little I wanted to live in a Coca-Cola commercial.  Everyone was thin, healthy, beautiful, active, and loved each other. Those 30 seconds of Utopia are unattainable of course, but is there a way we can live, happy with who we are, and feeling loved and supported by the people around us?

Embrace your people

Those lovely souls who share your home, your work space, and your neighborhood.  These are your people and they would love to help you out.  Talk to them about living better: eating well and moving well.  Have a heart-to-heart with those you trust to help you eat better and move more.

Eating well

Everyone needs to buy in here and it is probably the hardest part about transitioning to a healthier lifestyle.  Your spouse might really like the greasy-burger-and-white-bread life.  Talk to everyone about making better choices and why you’re doing it.  It’s not just for you, it’s for them too.  Get ready! They’ll all nod in agreement when you start, but then they’ll resist when they don’t get their usual fare.  I have seen this a zillion times with my clients!  Start small and kinda sneak stuff in.  Here are some ideas …

  • Buy lower fat or skim milk and keep the cap from the old bottle and switch it.  (My Mom did this to me and I never noticed, she had to tell me.)
  • Buy whole wheat bread instead of white and they’ll barely register the difference.
  • Cut meat up and mix it in with the veggies and they won’t realize you’re giving them smaller portion sizes of protein.
  • Switch to olive oil and canola oil when cooking and they’ll never notice you ditched the butter or less healthy oils.
  • Make the portion sizes of the veggies gradually larger, and make sure they are fresh and tasty (think: lots of herbs).
  • If you make a big Sunday breakfast make the pancakes smaller (I use 1/3 cup measuring cup) for each pancake and put out lots of fruits.  They’ll pick at the strawberries and oranges and not realize their pancakes are smaller.  (I also use white whole wheat flour so it’s healthier and no one ever noticed I did that either.)

Moving well

Get excited about something and make it infectious!  Talk to your friend about the cool new Zumba class you found and why you should go and check it out together.  Tell your stressed out coworker about a awesome Yoga class after work, and how you both should go next week.  Joke about how your newfound Zen will help you with your cranky boss.  Tell your family how incredibly cool it feels to kayak down a river and you found a place where you can rent one.  Don’t even mention that this stuff is healthy, just mention how exciting it is and they’ll be caught up in the fun with you.  With luck, you’ll find an activity you like and have people to go with you.

Realize that your health is woven into your life

Our health is pervasive: it never leaves us, and it affects our decisions throughout the day.  Too tired to get up to have breakfast at home? You grab and go at the donut shop.  Decide to work late to get one more thing done? You’ll have to skip your planned workout.  Meet friends for a decadent lunch? Why not try a walk around a nearby pond together instead?

We choose our path a thousand times a day.  We need to remember that the immediate ease sets us up for more stress and struggle later.  Just as bad, our poor choices negatively affect those around us.  What do you want to pass onto your loved ones? Evaluate your choices and see how can you improve in small ways.  These add up in no time, and you’ll be healthier.

Group hug!

It’s so easy to throw in a platitude here, “no man’s an island” or “it takes a village.”  But, this is really just a series of simple choices.  Choose to live a little bit better, moment to moment, choice by choice, and you’ll wind up miles ahead.  You’ll even get to live in that Coca-Cola Utopia—at least every once in a while!

About Lisa Johnson

Lisa Johnson runs her own successful fitness blog at Lisa Johnson Fitness and is frequently seen hanging around Twitter @LisaJohnson. She also runs a few Pilates studios, Modern Pilates Boston.

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    I love that one! In the end, “I am responsible…” No blaming, no victim, no self-pity.

    Lovely reminder of tasty herbs, a walk with a friend, and more hugs. TY Lisa!

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